Born out of the ideals of the 60’s when women first had full use of the pill and men their imaginations over fucking and not worrying about getting a woman pregnant, free sex has been on our minds as the right of every adult. But free sex costs, it always has and always will. It might not specifically require we surrender a tariff, but in a way we always do, all of, no matter our gender or sexual preference.
Mostly sex costs in the way our physical connection lead us into emotional ones. This is the aspect of being intimate a lot of hetero guys try to avoid, hoping to add notches to their conquest belt and women attempt to ensnare their men with; the feelings end of fucking. But even with a fuck-buddy, over time, some feelings will surface between the two partners, only from one to the other and then the sex has cost a mightily price as casual sex partners can no longer be together.
Feelings get in the way and what we thought was free sex has exacted a price
There are the manipulations to that come from sex; how some women keep themselves chaste until they get the man to pay-either by money, time or commitment-for their favors or men keep extracting payment from a woman by luring her further into coming across to keep him interested, in affect paying with her body to keep him. We truly do use the notion of free sex to get rich in our own ways.
In the end though we all know that sex costs and costs a high price at that. Gay men to lesbians, to transgendered folk to the typical hetero teen aged couple all realize the costs to getting-off with someone else. We all know the complications-costly that they are-with letting another person into our lives and intimate indulgences and we all know that there is no such thing as free sex though we strive to find it all the time in person and online.